Hawaii is one of the most popular vacation destinations in the United States, and yet, most won’t ever get to go. A trip to Hawaii is special, which is why those going on their first trip usually want to pack in as many activities as they possibly can, because who knows when you’ll get this chance again? 

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Top Islands to Spend Your Vacation

1. Oahu, with its beautiful crystalline shores, Waikiki Beach, and the bustling Honolulu metropolis 

2. Maui, with its stunning rainforests, the Road to Hana, and Haleakala sunrises

3. Kauai, where you’ll find dramatic cliffs, the “canyon of the Pacific” and plenty of laid-back charm to go around 

4. Big Island, where you’ll find active volcanoes, stunning black beaches, and some unbelievable views of the Milky Way from Mauna Kea

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Save Up Those Vacation Days 

If you can, save up those vacation days so that you can take between 10 and 14 days off in one go for your Hawaii vacation. This is how you’ll break out of your old routines and soak in everything there is to offer in Hawaii. Most importantly, it’s how you’ll have time to visit more than one island at once. 

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Book the Big Activities In Advance 

From Hana Highway Tours to spa activities and events, these big activities are best booked in advance to help you secure your spot and save through early bird discounts. Try to keep it to one or a maximum of two paid and planned activities per day. The last thing you want is to take all spontaneity out of your trip, and you want to plan in contingency time if you see something amazing on the ground, or just need more relaxation time than you thought you would. If you’re planning two things in one day, you’ll also need to make sure that you have more than enough time between the two, to accommodate unexpected delays, traffic, and so on. 

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What to Look For in Your Accommodation 

Your accommodation is a huge part of your experience. This doesn’t mean that you have to splash the cash, but simply that you need to be more mindful of how you can use that hotel room or condo to its fullest. 

For example, you can save money, plan for some comfortable downtime, and enjoy more of your stay by choosing from one of the top Maui vacation rentals that have a kitchen. Shop at the local markets, and make cooking an event. Even if all you do is buy pastries and fresh fruit for breakfast, you’ll still get more out of your stay and be able to slow down your trip, so you can soak in all that is around you. 

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Top Activities to Consider for Your Trip

There are so many things that you can do during your Hawaii stay, but since this guide is all about planning, here are the activities you’ll want to consider booking before they sell out: 

Maui Adventures and Activities 

One of the best things to do in Maui is to drive, specifically on the Road to Hana. Rent a car, and make sure you stop at all the little scenic points and towns along the way. You’ll find rainforests, waterfalls, and charming little towns during your trip (even a few hidden beaches), making this the ultimate mini-road trip for anyone visiting Hawaii. If driving a car isn’t your style, you may instead want to take a horseback ride trail tour or go on a hike.

Oahu Adventures and Activities 

Oahu is home to Honolulu, the Polynesian Cultural Centre, Diamond Head Crater, and Waikiki Beach. Try to immerse yourself as much as possible in Polynesian culture and the natural beauty surrounding you, but remember to book ahead. Even a trek up to Diamond Head Crater needs to be booked in advance.

Kauai Adventures and Activities 

Adventurers will want to trek or kayak along the legendary Kalalau Trail, which takes you around stunning cliffs and ocean views. Alternatively, you can view the coast from the water on a Na Pali Coast boat tour. Waimea Canyon is another top view you’ll want to see on this island. If you can’t do these activities on foot for any reason, find a tour where you can ride along to see all those once-in-a-lifetime views. 

Big Island Adventures and Activities

When you’re on the Big Island, it’s all about the volcanoes. Go visit the Volcanoes National Park and the Thurston Lava Tube, or see the glow of Kilauea’s center at night. Thanks to those volcanoes, you’ll also be able to lounge on black beaches, or even take a boat tour to see lava flow (from a distance).

Takeaways

There is so much to do in Hawaii. With its stunning views of nature, immersive cultural experiences, and endless outdoor excursions, you’ll be looking to plan your next trip just as quickly as your first. The opportunity to explore all of Hawaii’s magnificence is likely within your reach, and with the proper planning, you will get to do everything on your bucket list. So, don’t push it off this year. Plan a trip to Hawaii and discover for yourself why its natural beauty draws millions of people each year.

There has never been such a greater time in our history where our lives and wellbeing have been more uncertain than ever. With countless catastrophic world events taking place, such as the recent Maui fires, and many other inexplicable disasters, it becomes increasingly apparent that taking life one day at a time is a daily approach we can all benefit from.

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As questions surmount worldwide as to the causes of all the turmoil we now face, living in the present has significant advantages for our mental health and wellness. We can not change the past, and we do not know the future. So, what good is it to live in these states when all it will bring is distress? From staying present to being more productive, in this article, we will discuss a few benefits of taking life one day at a time.

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Moving forward

Many of us live in a what-if kind of state. This can be harmful to our way of thinking and only serves to drag our emotions down. It is true that we all have experienced challenges and will continue to face them throughout our lives. Some of us have even faced traumatic events that we can not simply move past without help. Thankfully, we can always choose to keep moving forward with our lives because we have the power to create a better future for ourselves and our families.

For those facing post-traumatic stress disorder in particular such as a veteran, for example, seeking VA rehab treatment for issues like drug and alcohol addiction following trauma is always a viable option. There is no better time than now to seek the treatment and healing that you need to move forward and prosper. Oftentimes, breaking harmful cycles over which we feel we have no control takes one step forward to bring forth a dramatic shift in the direction of our lives.

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Being in the Moment

It is far too easy to get stuck looking at the past and worrying about the future. Yet, as humans, we can not help this no matter how hard we try to avoid it. Since we were raised on the assumption that time is linear, this makes it very difficult to see that there really is no other time that exists than now, and by focusing on the past or future, we miss what is right there in front of us—the real blessing.

By placing our attention outside of what is happening now, our perceptions get distorted. Once a moment is gone, it is gone forever, and we may never have the same opportunity again to appreciate how significant that moment was. Life is meant for living, so try to avoid getting overwhelmed by life. Take it one day at a time as it comes so that you can appreciate the things that you really don’t want to miss out on, whether it be self-care activities for groups that make you feel connected, the joyous laughter of your child, or simply the beauty of nature around you.

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Living mindfully

Health and well-being are vital for a meaningful life. And when you take life moment by moment, you learn to become more self-aware and more conscious of what you need. This means you can look after yourself much more optimistically and mindfully than previously.

In doing so, you learn to understand what you need, when you need it, and how to get it. Living like this helps you thrive rather than survive, and over time, you will learn to bring together all the tools needed to add value to your days. Applying what you have learned throughout your life allows you to see everything as a lesson so that things become more manageable with time, and you have a wiser approach to life.

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Being More Productive

Further to adding value to your days, motivation increases much more when you learn to take what the day has for you rather than obsessing about how bad the working day could be. Rather than focusing on the tasks you do not enjoy, consider them a challenge and rise to meet them one by one. Remember the skills you have, who you will have the opportunity to interact with and exchange ideas with, and how you are capable of contributing your talents. Being more aware of this means you will only work harder and better and feel rewarded when all is said and done.

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A Better Partner 

Living one day at a time helps you exist better with those around you. Rather than becoming a victim of violent mood swings because of anxiety and uncertainty, you can gain a better understanding of self-discipline. You can then gain control over your emotions and become more pleasant to be around when you do this. This also helps you identify the behavior patterns and triggers that are bad for you so that you can remove them from your life a little at a time until you find peace.

Takeaways

While we as a society face many additional challenges beyond the comforts of our home, moving past our inner struggles allows us to conquer half the battle. By moving past the things you no longer have control over through living in the present, you gain freedom that can only propel you forward. In this space, you are in complete control over the direction you choose and have the power to create a better experience for yourself—one that can change the course of your entire lifetime.

Whatever you are struggling with today, be it something from the past or something yet to happen, know that you can choose this moment to decide that the only thing worth measuring is your present awareness and your approach to what comes next. Seek continual growth, and you will discover that there is so much more to be grateful for in the now. Yesterday is but a memory and tomorrow can wait. So, enjoy this very moment, and be alive and well.